Today marks 4 weeks we’ve been on the island. That sounds surreal. We still feel so very green, so naïve, so unsure as we try to navigate our new normal. For those of you who are curious I thought I’d share with you the routine we’re falling into:
Monday-Friday we get up about 6:15 (that’s 2:15 to those of you back home … and yes I might still be a little bitter about the time change!). Two dogs and a puppy from across the street (dogs roam all around free here) follow us every morning for about half of our 5 minute walk to the main road where we flag a “transport” (15-passenger van). The kids & I take the transport to the Ross campus while Jon walks the shorter distance to the satellite building where 1st semester classes are held. This was stressful for me at first because the transports are usually filled with locals on their way to work and it can be slow getting the kids and their backpacks on & off while fumbling around my bag to find the $1.50 EC taxi fare – I don’t want to be the reason anyone is late! But the locals here are really patient and helpful with the kids. Another walk across campus then I drop Solveig off at the Ross Prep School (of around 50 kids), and take Lincoln to the preschool/daycare adjacent to it. Solveig’s teacher is a strong soft-spoken Dominican woman who Solveig says has both a “lady voice and a big voice.” There are about 10 kids in her combined pre-K/kindergarten class and she loves it. Lincoln also has three wonderful, very nurturing Dominican women for teachers, but it’s taken a while for him to admit that he has fun there. A lot of their classmates are administrator’s and faculty’s kids, so I’ve gotten the pleasure of knowing a couple of Jon’s professors as regular people!
Jon’s afternoons usually include a cadaver lab, group study session or tutoring, and in the off hours he camps out in the library re-watching the recorded lectures from that morning and studying. He has dinner on his own and usually takes a shuttle home between 9:30-11.
Saturdays Jon tries to spend the morning with the kids watching movies, and leaves for school to study sometime before lunch. Our landlord’s wife comes to clean Saturday afternoons (which I thought was going to be great but it actually just forces me to spend the whole day hurriedly cleaning in preparation for her to come later!). The kids have swim lessons in the afternoon and we’ve been meeting Daddy for dinner on campus. Some Saturdays Jon’s been going up to the Carib Indian Territory with some other students and working in the free clinic there.
One thing that’s nice about that church is everyone knows and understands each other’s situation, exactly when you have an exam coming up, or what it’s like to study things like histology - it’s really quite unique. And each exam day the prayer team greets students outside the test site and prays with anyone who wants to. The speaker at church yesterday very thoughtfully pointed out how med students can so easily get self-absorbed; wrapped up into their studies, stressing about their next exam, agonizing over their schedule. God disappears and students fall into a rhythm of relying on themselves for their success. They forget Who They Are. We are called to be Jesus' disciples first then everything else second, right? And while I vehemently feel that we are to respect the opportunities God gives us with energy, effort and excellence, we can’t forget Where Those Opportunities Came From. The opportunity that Jon has in medical school is not something he deserved or even earned. God was very specific in the way He gave it to him and did not leave any room for us to think we did it on our own. So now, when we are completely absorbed in med school, how can we think we can do this on our own? This has been really sticking with Jon and I. It’s so hard for Jon to justify time away from studying (he’s actually really grateful that we are so isolated here with zero other obligations), but taking time out for God is something he cannot ignore. So we’ve been working on being more intentional about that because we’ve realized: the reason we’ve been feeling so much like we’re drifting in the waves is because that’s exactly what we have been doing!
So without further ado...